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Thursday doors

 

Some doors should just stay shut, and others should be explored.  A door opened yesterday, that gave vent for deep rooted anger and hurt to escape.  Fortunately I was able to close the door again.  But it is obviously one I will have to explore again, at another time.

My Mother passed away 2 years ago, my husband one year ago.  There is more processing to do. I give thanks for the blessing of friends.

PL Precept # 5  One’s self is lost by being emotional

PL Precept # 4  Being annoyed limits your expression.

Question, when your hurt is disrespected and tossed aside, my reaction is to withdraw, so that I can be respectful as much as I can of another persons stubbornness… Why is it so difficult for me to accept.  I am not a masochist .. I distance myself my preference to be to live in peace and be happy.  However, there are times, it isn’t that simple.  So by golly, shut that darn door, and leave it closed, in fact, bring the nails and hammer and I will nail it shut.

How serious am I.

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We can open a door and walk away,  or we can look out and shut the door, staying inside, or ……..   ?????

Today being Thursday, check out other blogs that are featuring doors. begin here Norm 2.0

Oyashikiri

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Comments on: "Thursday doors" (5)

  1. A simple, yet powerful prayer my Aunt and I came up with a long time ago has to do with doors opening and shutting when we are having trouble coping with a situation in life: “May the doors that need to open, open, may the doors that need to shut, shut.” amen. May be this will resonate with you? Hope all is well.

  2. Some people cannot respond to others’ hurt – perhaps because it makes them feel they should do something about it rather than just be there

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