I’m short on words today, but I can inject a good quote and a couple of funnies into your day.. It is a lovely day, I hope you get to enjoy it, it is the open road for me today… I’m gonna make my way into the country, pass fields of corn and clover, old barns and ones that have been made over into something all brand new. Be back soon.
btw.. programs that don’t have spell check..are grrrrr…in my book
Good morning everyone:
How is your day going so far? I know that many of you are in completely different time zones. For me it is the start of my day, albeit a late start. Lately I have been enjoying long fitful sleeps Yesterday I ran around like a woman on a mission, (that is because I was) I had things to do, people to see, and then a 7 pm Thanksgiving service at the church.
It never occurred to me that I wouldn’t get everything done, I just set out to do it and it all fell easily into place. However, by end of day, I was ready for my trip into slumber land. I am working on my virtual blog which takes days and sometimes weeks to do because I have to coordinate with other artists.
One of the artists is an amazing talent, she does shapes and skins for the virtual world as well as clothes and accessories. Even the virtual name she uses tells you she is going to be an interesting person to get to know. (Lush Meme)
For those of you who are unfamiliar with the virtual worlds, everyone entering into a virtual world has to create an avatar for themselves. Obviously we are all different and our likes and wants are going to be different.
Some visitors to the virtual worlds, don’t really care about their appearance, they get an avatar on entering into the new world, and they keep it, maybe change their clothes to better reflect what they like to wear and personalize themselves. but aside from that they are content to be the avatar that they used to come inworld. The virtual worlds are full of mentors, people with experience and years in the virtual environment and are willing to help out and put their experiences to use to help others wanting to grow within the community. With some it is building, creating the architecture, homes,fantasy builds more to do with lifestyles of the inhabitants.
Others, like Lush provide the body of the person (shape, size of your shoulders, length of your arms, waist, hip etc. ) and the skin,(colour or tone of your skin, make ups etc) The women more than the men tend to want to look a “certain” way, and they are apt to change their makeup, and hairstyles often. Men do however, like to (most of them) want to look presentable, once they find the shape, skin and hairstyle they like they are more likely to change outfits for different occasions, but their basic look stays the same.
It is always an interesting exercise when someone new to the world joins us and they being their transformation. There are many artists in the virtual worlds and some are more creative than others. You have to look around, you have to try the demos provided. Otherwise you will look like the person beside you. In the virtual world you get to build and create what you want to look like.
Now in the day-to-day world, it is not so easy, we are born with our bodies, skin tone and hair colour. changing is a natural process, nature dictates pretty much our rate and speed of growth etc. And to many it is a life long battle to try to fit in to the “social/fashion norms” or Photoshop pictures we have put in front of us on a daily basis.
I have to fast today for a hospital visit tomorrow.. That got me thinking of bodies/shapes, and our sometimes out of kilter food decision and choices…. what can I say I got carried away after looking in the mirror this morning. Hope you survived the visit. Love you all.
Sincere apologies to those of you, who prefer my shorter blogs.. Thankfully I don’t have to fast often. =^_^= meanwhile blessings all, and where-ever you are, have a super grand day. Be Happy.
Namaste – Oyashikiri
for more on Lush, my virtual blog will be posted later today.
Why not, some of these funnies have been going around for years, when I got a package of them this morning, I thought why not share. The talented cartoonists and illustrators captured in one “picture” what might take pages to say otherwise..
When I was younger (much younger and starting to work full-time) I remember having similar thoughts, about being old enough to make my own decisions, and someone, usually my Mother, trying to reason with me on various matters. It is only when I got much older did I realize how right she had been. I didn’t think so at the time though. When we are young we think that the experiences we have and the challenges we face are soooooooo unique.. in reality, we all fall in love, we are all at some time left feeling lost and lonely, and we all have a tendency to forget that each and every other person in our lives has known the same pangs of emotions we have.
This next one… the moment I saw it, several people came to mind that I love dearly, but immediately their faces sprang up when I “reacted” to this illustration .. No two people are alike, and it is not always about a person’s mannerisms, looks or method of conversation that keep us friends, it is their loyalty, sincere friendship, & the willingness to accept us as we are.
A relationship worth having is one that experiences the highs and lows of life in a way that respects the differences and accepts the adventure of life in a way that is compatible with yours.
No Kidding!
Make this a happy day..
Love you !!
Namaste – Oyashikiri
How are you today?
PL Precept #21 Live maintaining equilibrium between mind and matter…
This lovely picturesque grouping is of Giethoom in the Nederlands where there are no roads. It is a beautiful and quiet village unique in that you will not find a single road in the entire town. Instead it is connected with paths, bike trails and a canal system. Visitors are welcome to explore by renting a noiseless, electric “whisper boat”. I have been enchanted with the idea of visiting ever since I read about the place.
We all lead busy, at times hectic lives, and finding that quiet time we need so much often eludes us. We grab moments here and there, but often they just are not enough. In PL we have a Precept, # 5 that says.. One’s self is lost by being emotional.
The 21 PL Principles help us to achieve the 21 PL Precepts that we live by. Like everyone we struggle at the best of times to get then right, or to effortlessly follow them, but in following PL Principle #1 – I will live paying careful attention, putting Makoto into all I say and do (Makoto/sincerity) as best we can, dedication towards that goal helps enormously.
To be easy going, and to live life constantly in a cheerful and calm state is something to strive for. When I’m challenged, then I revisit the Holland of my dreams, and let my mind wander effortlessly through the gardens, and sail the waterways. Care to join me today? You are all so precious to me, I wish for you a glorious sun filled day , no matter where you are, no matter the weather, let the joy of life, bless you with a soothing balm of love. Thank you for sharing this moment with me, I really truly appreciate the time you spend with me. (I would burst out into song, “love is in the air” but that dear reader would really send you into hiding ) liefde + kus xxxoo
Namaste – Oyashikiri
If you are a chocolate lover, is this cuteness enough for you =^_^= All my bunny lover pals, will find this sooooooo cute. On the other hand, I know that my chocolate buddies will want a little more drool …=^_^=
This brownie pie takes an hour and a half to make, and serves 10 – 12 people. I look in awe at such a decadent delight, #1 I’m diabetic and can’t indulge, #2 a whole hour and a half to prepare something that even if I tried would never look like that ( I am not a baker) I can still admire the talent and dedication it must have taken to put this together, and then artfully display it. Wow. Same applies to the pancakes, that is so creative..
A picture says it all, Angel food cake French Toast, cream cheese and strawberry syrup. Says it serves six, now is this one serving that is shown here? or do we have to share??? Have I found your taste buds yet? I know all these decadent offerings and all before lunch time. below This is what I had in mind when I started my search. Noodle dishes! big fat juicy shrimps! Bonus if its spicy. I know, I know, noodles/pastas are not good for the blood sugar counts. %>(
Do I cheat, yes I do. There are days when I just can’t resist the urge to have something that is totally decadent and sinful. I’ve learned that it happens, and once I feed my determined taste buds, they are satisfied I didn’t ignore them, I allowed them “voice”, they are content to take a back seat. Moderation.
This is what I call truly decadent, this dish and versions of it, I’d eat everyday . Crunchy Asian Salad with peanut dressing, Why all this talk of food, I guess it’s because the last few days I’ve heard so much talk of people wanting to lose weight, go to the gym more often and and and. It almost sounds like they are unhappy with what they have become…. Starting a new year, or new day isn’t about depriving yourself, it’s about living your day to the fullest and being as happy as you can be. Happy people, tend to be healthier, happy is a stare of mind and BEING,.
Every morning when we wake up, appreciate that you are alive, we have a day ahead to enjoy. If you wake up and already you are pushing negative thoughts out into the Universe, then you are more likely to have a crappy day. I agree it isn’t always easy to be cheerful and positive, but if we truly want to be happy, we will look at creative ways to make happy happen.
Enjoy the moment, get out there and let the happy happen…
Namaste Oyashikiri
* handmadecharlotte.com
** ladybehindthe curtain.com
*** carlsbadcravings.com
**** gimmesomeoven.com
v – juliasalbum.com
v* inspiredbycharm.com
If you drive you know all about the emergency brake, and how and when to use it. But what about own behaviour, do we have the owner’s manual handy for our “self-control” Do we know where it and how to employ it when a situation or circumstances get out of hand,
We have all had moments when we have been confronted with an angry person, we’ve seen the facial signals, the change in body stance, perhaps you’ve had such instances yourself where you’ve felt the anger build, and you simply want to vent.
Shove off…………… Stay off my patch …………….. leave me alone ………………..you are ticking me off ………………. I said NO ! For sure we know this is not the face of kindness, or an invitation to come closer for a hug. This “Being” is clearing expressing his/her mood at the time of the picture.
Nor is this a sign of wanting company, or your interference. Very clear signs, why do we ignore them, think we know best, or want to have our needs met when the other person is unresponsive. Someone once said to me, when her spouse had just such a face… “I don’t understand, I’m happy and want him to be happy” We are not always on the same page at the same time. And another person’s mood may have absolutely nothing to do with us. Respecting someone else’s space is so very important, in all relationships/ interactions. family, friends or otherwise.
Donald has the right idea here, this is the “talk to the hand” signal… It means, stop, I no longer want to listen, “talk to the hand” A friend once explained this to me, I’d never seen it before. She was a manager of an office, and had to listen to a lot of flack at times, when she had enough, she would raise her hand, like Donald is doing, and we would know, she’d reached her limit.. it said give me a break, come back another time.. I’ve used this over the years, it saves a lot of grief. gives all parties a chance to just chill, reflect and calm down.
Find your emergency brake and when you need to use it… Please do so… activate it…. spare others around you that negative moment that is yours to alone to own.
Love is unconditional, we are loved no matter what our mood, or actions are. It is just easier for everyone when we learn to take ownership of our actions, and discover an appreciation for a quieter state of mind.
Namaste – Oyashikiri
** 4TNZ
So much to see, so much to do, there are times when it feels like one is visiting Alice in wonderland. Only we aren’t sure how we got there, or just what to do next. It happens, you are still being social, getting things done, but somehow you have lost the connection to your modem.
You know something is amiss, just can’t put your finger on it. We’ve all heard the expression, “one door closes, another opens”.. Sometimes it just isn’t obvious where that other door is. Some doors are not what we expected, but then that is the beauty of life isn’t it. To grow and develop our knowledge base, we have to explore beyond our known borders.
Is today a day we will open a door, or will we admire the door and keep walking. Do we lean towards doors with history, or do we wait for that one door that will beckon. ???
Admittedly some doors are well boarded up, so do we really want to go inside. In my world the answer would be, probably not, I tend to live in the moment, and going back isn’t an option for me. I have discovered that life will bring me the lessons that I need to relearn, perhaps in a different format, but I recognize the lesson. Maybe not at once, but at a given moment the light bulb goes on, and I just know, I’ve been in this space and time before. Perhaps the players are different and the location, however the lesson is one that I’ve faced before.
PL Precept # 7 (of 21) Everything Exists in Relativity
PL Precept # 12 Everything has a way according to its Name
When I hit a phase of walking in a daze, I “Let Go” and just try to slow down so that I can regroup. In the car while going to the gym, instead of going to the one closest to me, I took a left and drove to the one further away. This meant driving several miles out of my way, but on open road. Driving can be therapeutic.
This is what I heard when pushed the play button – it made a difference in my mood, and set the pace for the rest of the day.
http://http://youtu.be/EZ2qg2a3G-s
Choreograph your day, your way!
Namaste – Oyashikiri
* photo by Anah Be Carnio
** Turkey
*** flickr-post apocalypse by randomesquephoto
We were three sisters, out for the first time in our adult lives, on a day trip. What a time we had, due to the distance one sister has to come, this was a very special and rare occasion. Speaking for myself, I rediscovered a full belly laugh, silly laughing, and just plain fun. Over time. we forget just what sisters can be like together when on their own. No other family members, no husbands, children etc. Just the three sisters. The further we got from “home base” the sillier some of our behaviour became. Can I give you specifics no… but there were times when we laughed so hard it was freeing. uninhibited and to onlookers maybe a tad ridiculous. But we didn’t care. We were having fun, the innocence of children at play.
The middle sister seemed to forever be saying…. let’s be positive, we’re here, let’s just enjoy ourselves. Hmmmm those moments seemed to happen when our grown up habits snuck up and popped up. It is hard at times to really just cut loose. However, we did put our best effort into it, and had one fun time. The happy face is still with me today.
May each and every one of you have a lot of happy moments today. Remember to smile, if someone is not smiling, give them yours. =^_^=
Well dear reader, today is the day, tomorrow will be October 1. October is the first day of a month of bewitching crafts,art pieces,ATCs,fun with my paper and embellishment supplies, all month I get to play. Of course it wasn’t always this way, at one time I had a 9-5 commitment that took time away from doing fun things,like draw witches and goblins, graveyards and bats, decorate envelopes before sending out a greeting to a fellow artist and friend.
We are never too old to express ourselves with markers and stickers. Wish we had dollar stores in the bygone years.
PL Precept #1…Life is Art
If you are an artist, or craft person, writer,architect,parent,cook, housekeeper, it doesn’t really matter what we do that fills our world with “fun”, we find a way to get what we want to do done.
In life,in all situations, I try to apply the same attention and attitude to all challenges and detours I find in my path.
When the enthusiasm is there even if not a “perfect: day, it is a “worthwhile” day, I live and learn. we are asked to Listen with our hearts and minds to those around us, to give them our full attention. I’ve had to learn to do that for myself as well.
Some days I just have to retreat, and have a “me” day. What was the expression used at work,”a wellness day”. The fall for me is a time to come alive, I know to many it is spring that does it for them, me… give me a fall day anytime.
Fall is when we get to do fun things for the N. American Halloween, and the start of the gift making for the holidays.
The Canadian Thanksgiving and the American one are on different days. And of course in PL we celebrate EVERY MONTH!
Enjoy today everyone, do something special for yourself or a loved one. Think ahead to the delightful crisp fresh rejuvenating days of October. Don’t groan, as they say in the egg business, Get Cracking!
Blessings to each and everyone one of you on this happy happy morning.
photo -virtual world of SL -by Q
Today’s teaching on the PL calendar, couldn’t be more perfect!
Just Be Yourself
Relax and express yourself freely without hesitation. This allows you to live your life to the fullest.
Where-ever you are, What ever you are doing
Be Happy- make good memories.
Blessings…
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on September 30, 2013