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Friday

Sometimes we have to make decisions that we would rather not make. We put off doing something because it is not a easy decision to make. We think about what is bothering us, we dissect it, we review all the options, we consider the number of years we have been involved with the people/organization that is part of the equation. In the end, we have to gather all the pertinent information and review it carefully.

PL Principle #1 I will live paying careful attention, putting Makoto into all I say and do,

PL Principle #2 I will not have complaints about others, matters, nor the weather. Rather I will always be creative and will look for shortcomings in my own thinking and actions.

I have been very upset about something that is happening in an environment that I am involved with/in. So upset that I realized that I was not only upset, I was/ am feeling used. In reviewing the circumstances, I didn’t feel that I was personally being abused or mistreated by the situation, but never the less the “anger” in me was/is very real…. so saying, I decided that to make a proper decision, I needed to confront, and be honest and open about my feelings and why I was /or am ready to disassociate myself with the situation.

PL Principle # 6 I will not be stubborn, being captured by my own thoughts.

So I have made arrangements to listen to the “other side” with an open mind…. and then from there I will review my “headspace” again.

Meanwhile I am taking a step back, and will listen to the silence for awhile.

How is your day ? I wish for you a happy and positive week-end.

Oyashikiri

Tuesday

Give importance to listening, looking, thinking, doing and speaking

Look and listening carefully before making a judgment. Assumptions and hasty conclusions can lead to misunderstandings

PL2023.7

Oyashikiri

Saturday

A wooly face that always makes me smile.

Everything that happens to you is material for growth.

Approach everything with firm belief that, “it will turn out for the best” Anything can be used as material for progress and development.

PL2015.4

Oyashikiri

Friday

If you are cheerful, it will make everyone around you cheerful

Always smile and have a pleasant attitude.

PL2015.3

Oyashikiri

Thursday

Ok.. yes you’ve seen this message before… did you listen… did you consider the message?

Have you slowed down the pace of your life? I just received a very interesting video .. these days I can’t always tell if its Ai or ? because it has information that many will find useful, I’m leaving a link to it at the end of this post. Its about being an older “person”, this video is by a woman and aimed at women, but the message is important to everyone. We are all on the path that leads to “aging”.


Let’s set higher goals and work to improve ourselves

Let’s work towards our goals while keeping a clear vision of what we hope to achieve. Your strong conviction and Makoto (sincere effort) will help drive you towards accomplishing what you set out to do.

PL2014.2


she had a few other videos you might be interested in. have a look.

Oyashikiri

Tuesday

Have a prayerful mind to love yourself and others.

Open up your heart fully when praying to God. It will help you sort out your feelings.

PL2022.31


Living with cats has been a new adventure for me. Even tho’ I had cats for years in a bygone day… the most recent companions over the many years (more recently) were canine. Big difference. The cats and I have had to adjust … them to an eccentric eclectic human (they were rescues) and I… well… good thing they are patient..

Tomorrow we start another month. It is also the 1st, there will be a 10 a.m. service at church.. See you there if you can make it.

Oyashikiri

Sunday

a wee owl resting in the trees.

The picture has been cropped so that the location of the wee one is not easily determined. Yes I am one of the nature lovers who protects the wild life .. from onlookers who come and destroy the peace and tranquility of the woodlands …. it is unfortunate, but I have seen too many scenes of mobs who treat the wee ones like a sideshow.

Good morning everyone..

You gain strength through your hardships

Whatever you learn easily or master effortlessly tends to be forgotten. The lessons you gain through repeated mistakes are what gives you genuine strength.

PL2014.29

Please pray for world peace. These are troubled times.

Oyashikiri

picture.Gor..thank you for sharing…

Saturday

Let’s find the good in others and praise them.

All people have good qualities and bad qualities. focus on the good in others and applaud them every chance you get.

PL2014.28

Oyashikiri

Thursday

Good Morning everyone. Whatever you decide, enjoy and stay safe.

Make today a memorable day

Let’s try to put our whole heart into whatever we say or do, as our unique signature.

PL2022.26

Oyashikiri

Sunday

Value those who are nearest to you

It is especially easy to overlook how wonderful your spouse or other family members really are. Always remember to respect and value one another.

PL2021.22

Oyashikiri

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